A hard time

Yesterday I receved a letter from an university. They said "You have been assessed as qualified for a PhD as such, but..." I have received all of the answers of the PhD aplications that I have send. All of the answers said I am qualified for PhD, but not for the positions.

I have to go back to Japan soon. I cannot live here without some visa, I need a job in DK to get a visa. "L" said to me once to get marry and get a visa. I really really don't want to do with this way. Why does he have to pay 100.000DKK as a guarantee to marry me? Why do I have to take an danish exam to marry him? We will have to have quite many problems of visa even though we can get married just because I'm from non-EU country. How we can make a plan for our life with a problem that I may not be able to live in DK 2 years later? It is the best for his happiness to find a new danish or an EU-citizen girlfriend.

So I have started to find a job in Japan. Yesterday my application was rejected by a company. I'd like to get a job that I can use my education as an engineer in DK. But always rejected because I have no job experient as an engineer. My education is just an academic education, not an job-like experience. I don't want to think so. However many japanese company think so. They don't need people without an exactly job experience, except for young candidates. 31 years old is not young in Japan. Before I got an education in DK, I had thought it had been enough for me to get a job that I had worked before. But now, I really want a job as an engineer. How is regrettable that I through my education away! It is not the time to give it up. But I am sometimes tired of thinking that I'm still happy because I wear a normal clothes and shoes. Anyway It is an only way which I can to continue to send applications with keeping smile.


Hej. Jeg er "Syltetoejsglas". Jeg er japaner. Jeg er blevet færdig med min kandidatuddannelse i Danmark. Nu er jeg i Japan og venter på at starter mit nye job. På denne blog vil jeg skrive om mit daglige liv på dansk og engelsk. Både almindelige kommentarer og rettelser af mine danske skrifter er velkomne.
Hello. I'm "Syltetoejsglas (= "jam jar" in danish)". I'm japanese. I'm finish my master course in the university in Denmark. Now I'm in Japan and waiting for starting my new job. I'll write about my daily life in English and danish in this blog. Both ordinary comments and corrections of my english writing are welcome.

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